Tips

for having a money chat.

It’s important to start the conversation about money. For both big and small worries. These tips make it easier to talk about money:

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1. Think beforehand about what you want to say. Make a list of it. This way, you won’t forget anything and you can rehearse the conversation in your mind a bit.
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1. Decide whom you want to tell. A friend, family, or would you rather drop in for a money talk at one of the many Dordrecht Geldpraatje partners?
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1. Find a quiet moment for the conversation. This ensures that the other person has time for your story.
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1. Do you find this difficult? Then start talking about it while cooking, walking, or during another activity. It’s often easier if you don’t have to look at the other person.
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1. Don’t hesitate to mention how you feel and that you find it difficult to talk about this. For example, start with “I’ve been wanting to tell you something for a while, but I find it a bit scary to talk about.”
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1. Explain what’s going on and tell what the other person can do for you. Do you just want someone to lend an ear, would you like help, or do you want them to join you for a money chat?
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1. Seek professional help in time. Friends and family often don’t know the available options. The sooner you get help, the easier it is to solve.
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1. Realize that this can happen to anyone. Many people have financial worries without you knowing about it. So feel free to start the conversation, it really helps.